Bride Getting Ready - your tips, ideas & guide
With so many getting ready options, where do you begin?
Your wedding day has arrived and you have your closest girlfriends along side you. Do you want it to be serious or regiment or fun and free spirited. Do you want to laugh and smile till your face hurts? Make sure it happens. Plan for it now. Don’t stress the things you cannot do anything about. Plan for success. How do you do this? Below are some hints and a guide to things I’ve experienced over the years to make this happen.
Time, how much time is needed for brides and your bridesmaids to get ready? Well, this really depends on many elements you have. To be honest, my mind is spinning right now as there’s so many areas of getting ready. How much time you need is dependent on many factors.
How many bridesmaids do you have?
- Is your makeup going to be simple or elaborate.
- Are you doing your own makeup or do you have a makeup artist. Here's my vendor suggestions.
- How many makeup artist do you have?
- Have you had a trial run?
- Are you relying on Pinterest for a certain look and to give it to your makeup and hair artist on the day off and hope it’ll work out? Take it from me, it doesn’t always work out the way you want it to.
- Are you getting your hair done professionally? Do you have a stylist that knows your hair and has worked with your hair?
- Is your stylist coming to you or are you driving downtown? Has your stylist set aside time for only you and your bridesmaids or has she fit you into a time slot and you arrive only to 30 minutes as she’s behind?
There are so many factors that can make a day enfold with ease or, the dreaded, a church full of guests waiting 45 minutes for the bride.
Calgary and destination wedding photographer
Okay, here we go, makeup. As a Calgary and destination wedding photographer I have some tips. Ensure your makeup is applied in a room with natural lighting. I’ve seen makeup being applied in tungsten lighting in a dark hotel room and then when they walk out into natural light they look yellow, YIKES. Plus no blending has taken place from a brides face to her neck… Ouch… Amateur!!
So, in short, test out your artists and make sure you are both on the same page. The same goes with your hair stylist. Test runs take away the stress. Not just for you, but for your bridesmaids too.
I have seen many
Oh, of course, how much time do you allocate for hair and makeup per person. I suggest 1 hrs per person. If you have many bridesmaids make sure your stylists can cope with the volume. You know what, this guide is not about all the specifics, you can click this link here to learn more as I’ve written a blog post about this.
Many photographers in Calgary and around the world struggle
Another suggestion is to get a large enough room for you all to get ready in. It’s so often that not enough room has been dedicated for the ladies getting ready. Book a big room, go to town, this is one of the most important days ever so book that extra large room. I promise you'll be happy that you did. Also make sure (if you can that is) to have a room that receives lots of sunlight. The sun is your friend and generally speaking, you’ll have way better photographs in a bright room than a dark one. It takes a fabulous photographer (yes, somebody like me) to be able to photograph in a room with little to no light but don’t rely on someone like me. Many photographers in Calgary and around the world struggle with light as they don’t understand the basics of it. So, play safe and book a room that is large and delivers natural light.
As for the hanger, you have spent a ton of cash on your apparel, spend a little more on a lovely wedding dress hanger. If you’re not planning on having gorgeous photos taken of your dress, then sure, save some cash and use a plastic hanger, but if you’re planning on having professional wedding photographs of your dress, purchase a stylish hanger.
You can get a pretty wood hanger, or you can get the classic bride hanger. Did you know, you can have one made with the metal wire bent into any name?
Champagne. Lets crack a few bottles and start....
A bride and her bridesmaids can make for an exhilarating time. Women doing what many women love - getting pampered. Your makeup, your hair, your surrounding you, such a magical time. What next? The ladies and yourself together, getting ready usually allows for the perfect time to share a gift with them, if you happened to buy them one. Okay, now what? Some bubbly perhaps? Champagne. Lets crack a few bottles and start the bubbly going. Laughter and ladies screams are a blast. Don’t have too much though, you have a full day ahead of you.
So, in a nutshell, allow plenty of time for you and your bridesmaids to get ready. More than you may realize. I have some comical stories that I won’t go into… But please allow enough time.
If your ceremony is at 1pm, and you’re leaving your home at 12:30 for the ceremony then you should be in your dress by 12:00 at the latest. Plan for 11:30 am but know that this won’t take place and you’ll be rushing. Believe me, I see this too often.
My brides love a personal photography session for them prior to departing their home so allow extra time for this. You have to give to your photographer if you want awesome story telling photos.
Also, if you are interested in boudoir photos, you’ll even need more time. Plan for it! it happen. They are awesome photographs to have.
Shoes breaking, do you have a spare pair
Emergency kit, plus fake eyelash glue. HUGE deal, I see things happen all the time and dare I say break… Ah, I said it. Yes, things break and your team of girls better be educated for the major things, like stains, rips, zippers going wrong!, the pins holding things together, tear apart, hair coming out of place (actually like this one as if it’s windy it can look very natural). Still, if you want everything to look perfect all day, then you better make certain you have a backup plan. Shoes breaking, do you have a spare pair or can a bridesmaid give you hers! Just make sure things are thought of from A-Z. But what’s key is that you don’t think about anything on your wedding day, let your team of girls do all the work. Nothing to worry about. Go and have fun.
PHEWW… Was I of any help to you here? As you can see hiring a professional like myself, I will share even more of my knowledge with you, make sure we talk around everything. When you pay for a pro photographer you’re getting more than awesome photographs, you will receive not just the cake, you’ll receive the icing too.
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